I often feel tempted to share my plans that bring me happiness with my friends and family. I do this to share my joy and satisfy myself. I thought it was acceptable until I realized that by doing so, my plans were slipping further away from being achieved. Now, I am reconsidering my approach.

Am I cursed because I revealed it too early, or is an invisible force preventing me from realizing it? The goal seems to be to frustrate me and make me give up. This doubt often fills my mind.

It’s believed in Indonesian culture that you should not share your personal plans in advance.

Because not everyone is happy with you. Telling it can be interpreted as arrogance.

By conveying personal plans too early, you become easily changed if many criticize and do not support you. You will also feel pressured if the plan experiences obstacles from your side.

I’ve started to realize that revealing personal plans is not wise. It’s better to keep them as surprises. Others will find out once they are accomplished.

What about your culture or perspective on this matter? Do you need other people’s opinions before realizing a personal plan?

I’m glad to hear that, guys.