This writing is not about candy. It’s about how silaturrahim is important and encouraged in Islam. To bring sweetness to a sometimes bitter and harsh life. Silaturahmi can also prolong life and bring prosperity.

This morning, I will embark on a long journey from my hometown in Jambi to visit my child’s workplace in Riau, as he cannot come home. Afterward, I will do a pilgrimage to the graves of my parents and in-laws in West Sumatra. My husband and I will travel around 3 provinces for a week.

It is a tradition in Indonesia that before the fasting month of Ramadan, Muslims will make a pilgrimage to the graves of their family members or parents.

Though this is a physically tiring journey, visiting places full of sweet memories can hopefully revive the spirit of life. Take a break from tiring work.

I miss my Mom and Dad. Days before Ramadhan, that feeling is so intense. I could be sentimental talking and remembering them and my late little brother, Doli.

I also will meet with relatives who have not seen for a long time. Maybe many of our views are different, but I try not to be bothered by this. After all, we live our own lives.

I have prepared some tips to make the reunion enjoyable and leave a good impression.

1. Plan the trip well, including departure schedule, destination, and accommodation.
2. Inform the family about the trip plan so they are prepared to receive the visit. I bring souvenirs as a sign of love and attention to them.
3. Don’t get too tired, enjoy the scenery along the way
4. When meeting, listen to stories and show interest in their lives.
5. Share life experiences to strengthen the sense of brotherhood.
6. Enjoy time together and do fun activities.