Have you ever read Jane Austen’s novel Persuasion? There, you will meet a character named Anne Elliot. She is described as the middle child of three sisters who are neglected and forced to always give in. Actually, in terms of personality, she is the toughest.

I read the novel Persuasion and watched two versions of its film. Both the novel and film fascinated me. I felt like I was in the novel and the films as if I was near Anne at that time.

In that era, women aimed to marry noble and wealthy husbands, but Anne decided to marry for love instead. Her family rejected Frederick due to his lower social status. Frederick felt disappointed in her obedience to her family. He didn’t know that Anne had turned down other marriage proposals as a sign of her commitment and loyalty to him.

I admire a woman who is not too realistic. Once in a while, especially regarding love, she must act idealistic. This is not easy, but true feelings, beliefs, and prayers can help to make this happen.

I think the universe heard the whispers in Anne’s heart. Her determination to wait, even without certainty, produced good results.

Women should not be labeled as materialistic and easily dazzled by wealth and status. In matters of love and finding a life partner, it is fundamental to be idealistic. Wait patiently for your soulmate to come.