Is there an ideal community where all members are kind, refrain from preaching, do not think they are the most correct, and avoid gossiping?

I don’t think so. If you were in a community where all members were blood relatives, there would be more conflict and personal interference. Rules are often interpreted according to one’s wishes, sharpened by the characters’ differences among the community members.

Even if the community is formed from the same hobby or interest, there will always be problems. Would joining a community make your life more comfortable? Not that good. However, we need a community as social beings.

The three principles that I hold in interacting in the community are:

1. Be kind and do not discriminate against others based on their social status.
2. Be generous by engaging in activities that involve physical help or donations.
3. Avoid gossip and do not discuss personal issues.