Many things can be scary, but human thought and consideration help us navigate those feelings. Better to focus on things that make you comfortable and to avoid engaging in frightening or dangerous activities.

I remember an experience from decades ago when my husband and I rode a roller coaster for the first time. While waiting in line at the entrance, we didn’t realize how high the roller coaster was above the ground. Once we boarded the ride and it took off, my husband and I screamed in fear.

It was a very thrilling experience. Once, I jokingly asked my husband whether he still wanted to ride a roller coaster again?

Even if I were paid one hundred million rupiah, I would not want to.
He answered firmly.

I don’t want to either.