Sorry, but the best gift I ever received was a gift I gave to myself. It’s not that I don’t appreciate the gifts other people give me, but over time, they give me things I don’t need.

They may give me expensive and niche gifts, something from abroad or a faraway place, but they’re not things I need. I’m only happy for a moment, then I put them away somewhere until I forget.

I appreciate things that I can use every day. Things that look sophisticated or too stylish but can’t be used for everyday purposes end up in a corner of my house.

I like these types of gifts:

1. Mukena or clothes for prayer
2. Cosmetics, especially facial serum and lipstick
3. Biscuits, crackers, dark chocolate, or foods that are low in sugar and carbohydrates
4. Flowers, especially types I don’t have or rare plants.

Unwanted gifts can lead to unexpected conflicts. You must address this issue honestly and thoughtfully, so don’t overlook its importance!

Once, my husband gave me a pair of high heels. The model was elegant. But I never wear high heels. It was difficult to explain that his gift didn’t suit me.

If I didn’t wear the shoes, my husband would question me. However, if I forced myself to wear them, they would hurt my feet. Eventually, I asked his permission to sell the shoes to my friends and use the money to buy a new pair.

Although disappointed, he agreed. It was a moderate way to solve this problem.