Life teaches many things, but only to those willing to learn.

I realized its broad meaning as I grew older. Life is like an open class. Everyone is welcome, without a specific topic and without strict requirements. One can enter the class at will, and others can ignore it.

The results can vary widely from person to person, shaped by the unique motivations each carries. It all comes down to the genuine desire to learn and embrace those lessons. Your intentions are the key that unlocks the door to transformation!

As time passes, I realize the need to learn more about life. Although I am already in my 50s, I have not applied many things for the peace of myself and blessings to others.

The journey of life has only changed me a little. It came slowly. Perhaps because of my so ordinary life. The people around me, the movies I watch, and the books and scriptures I read all greatly influence me to change my habits and outlook on life.

Frankly, I still often compare myself to other people’s perspectives when I decide to adopt one perspective for myself.

For example, I see someone angry on the road because his car overtook another. I tell myself not to do it. This is detrimental to my mental health. Others will also look down on me as a temperamental person.

When I see someone calm, religious, and doing good, I ask about their routine. This motivates me to follow their path, adjusting it to my views.

Ultimately, it is not the suffering of life or the significant events in my life that teach me valuable lessons but rather the experiences of others that persuade me to change.

Learning from other people’s lives changes my perspective faster. I don’t think it’s wrong. Also, it doesn’t mean I am a copy-paste. I take wisdom from other people’s mistakes and goodness.

Who has the same pattern as me, friends?