When you cannot resolve a conflict by yourself, it is time to involve God.

I have many experiences related to that case. Once, it almost made me depressed. I didn’t know to whom I should share my thoughts. I felt cornered. He -my colleague who conflicted with me- reported me to our boss. In response, I said bad things about him to defend myself, but it was not helpful.

I blame myself for gossiping about him. The way I responded to his actions made me a bad person. What will I do to be restful and resolve the conflict? One night, I prayed. In the last prostrate in Shalah, I expressed my frustration.

Slowly, I don’t see him as a big enemy anymore. My perception of him is softer. When I talk to or meet him, He changes too. He is now less bossy and more careful with his words.

The prayers saved my situation. Though it is difficult to be a good friend, at least he is not a threat anymore.  I am also reminded to be wiser and more forgiving. The prayer actually impacts both sides.