There are many things I complain about every day, but the level varies. The most severe level of complaint is when the problem involves feelings. It is difficult to treat and resolve.
Now, I am learning how to put all the displeasure in this life not on my feelings but only on my brain so that I can find a solution.
There is a big difference between the two.
If I put the problem on my feelings, I am filled with doubt, sadness, and confusion. The solution is difficult to find because the subjectivity is very high.
But if I put it in my brain, usually, various solutions will appear to solve it. And I can be more assertive.
What problems do I complain about the most?
The work-related issues involving my staff, colleagues, and boss. Since I spend eight hours a day, five days a week with them, many problems arise. Conflicts are frequently up, and I have to deal with them.
I believe this:
Everyone has their own problems. Never feel that you are alone and there is no way out of your problems.