One of the things that makes me happy at this stage of life is my ability to think more calmly and simply without overthinking the past. Perhaps this perspective is also influenced by religious teachings that ask individuals to cultivate a forgiving nature.
One significant example of my personal growth is my ability to forgive my brothers despite past disappointments. Once, I was so angry that it resulted in a breakdown of communication between us.
One of my brothers experienced a painful divorce at 50, which severely impacted him financially. When he asked for help, I realized that holding onto my anger would only keep me from reaching out. I chose to set aside my disappointments and support him, even with doubts about his intentions and whether my help would lead to positive change.
In this case, I have several considerations.
- I am no longer young. I could die at any time. Leaving my brother to live in poverty while I can help is a negative attitude. I would not be proud of myself.
- If he lied to me or didn’t use the money I gave him to rebuild his work, the one who loses is himself. But I hope he learns from the failure of his marriage and economy.
- My wealth is a gift from God. I help him by using wealth or money that does not interfere with fulfilling my needs. Helping others does not harm my family.
- I always believe that kindness to other people will be repaid with kindness by God. Especially kindness to my own brother.
- Our siblingship is improving. That’s very relieving for both of us.
I believe everyone has problems with their siblings. While there is still an opportunity, please try to fix it.
Happy weekend, all. Cheers.
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